Ok I have some progress to report. I have a bit of an aptasia issue as well and I went into Reef Paradise and Andy suggested I use some Kalk paste on them as well. He was even nice enough to give me a bag of Kalk to try it out with.
I took out one major rock the night before I had the Kalk, but a lage softball sized frogspawn was stuck to the rock. I cut several palys off and then as chort mentioned I blow torched them.

Well that did the trick and it seemed to kill most of them. I obviously couldn't blow torch all of them that were still in the tank so I tried the Kalk past and it seems to have worked pretty good on the Aptasia and
Paly's. I just did a section of my tank last night so I don't introduce to much Kalk into the water at one time, and I will probably do a small section each night for a few days. This was you can really coat them b/c the paste is thick and its cheap so you don't have to worry about cost like you would w/ aptasia X or something like that.
Oh even after blow torching I still found a few alive on that rock so I had to Kalk paste them
Tonight I will probably have to deal w/ some aptasia that have grown in the middle of my zoas so I will have to try and kill the aptasia w/o killing the
zoa. That should be fun.
All in all things look better already and even though a blow torch works there are probably better ways of handling this situation
For the record when I took the torch to my what appeared to be a coral to my wife she thought I lost it