ok i have someone giving me some live sand from their tank. what if i mixed that with sand from the ocean, is that ok? i now have two sumps one being a trickle filter and one being my refugium, i was thinking of having my protein skimmer in my sump and setting my refugium up next to my tank. this would ad to my 70 galloon tank making the total water over 100. i also have a UV, filter a lifegaurd filter ontop of my R/O would this be a good idea?