I have to tell you that I too found out the hard way that bird wrasses eat the clean up crew. I proudly purchased some hermits and brought them home. Once in the tank I got to sit and watch for the next 1 1/2 as my bird wrasse consumed the most expensive meal (at one time) that I had ever feed him. I was so depressed and my husband didn't know what to do with me. Unfortunately you never know when these guys are going to strike and it's not likely that you will ever be able to keep your tank stocked enough to keep it clean. Or you will constantly be stocking the tank for his/her enjoyment. This fish are good for fish only or FOWLR tanks but don't usually find their way into reef settings for that matter. Hope this helps.
Lynn, your male/female pair are beautiful by the way. I bet that you enjoy watching them play together.
Angie