TDS creep happens with all RO membranes and a flush kit is of no value for this other than to lighten your wallet. Think about it, the flush kit installs on the waste line and bypasses the flow restrictor so you temporarily increase the flow rate to waste.
The TDS creep water is on the TREATED side of the membrane already so you can flush all day on the waste side without affecting the treated side. Its a way to get in your pocket.
You said you have domestic well water so your problem is more than likely CO2 in the water which is tough on DI resin and cannot be measured as TDS so does not show up. Your membrane is doing a very good job in reducing the 375 or whatever it was TDS down to 4, thats almost 99% rejection rate which is much better than most systems are capable of.
Short of building a degassing station to reduce the TDS your best bet is to try Spectrapures custom blended DI resins, they are guaranteed to outperform any other resin on the market and they do work. My tap TDS is between 530 and 850 and we do have a CO2 problem here, with my old AWI Typhoon III system I could never get over 150 gallons of 0-1 TDS RO/DI water no matter which resin I used, what brand it was or how fresh it was. I fought this ofr about 5 years before purchasing a Spectrapure MaxCap system. My very first DI cartridge lasted 830 measured gallons right out of the box and the next was over 1000 gallons with no other changes.
They have tens of thousands of hours testing every resin on the market that has led to blending their own in-house so they can control its quality. Its as low as $18 a full 20 oz cartridge on sale and the SilicaBuster is probably what you need.
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If you have dual DI such as I do then the MaxCap/SilicaBuster combination is what I would suggest. There really is a difference. I tried straight from Resin Depot, AWI, PurelyH2o, Buckeye and many others and was even buying it in factory 50 lb sealed bags and boxes and vacuum sealing it for my friends in group buys. We all gave up and use only Spectrapure now.
TDS is not really as n=bad as it seems, its usually only a few ounces of water surrounding the membrane inside the housing and its no more than 1/2 the tap water TDS and usually much less than that. A few ounces is not going to kill a DI cartridge but it is a good idea to make water in larger less frequent batches so you get good long filter runs to flush the membrane well. If you make wate rnnually you can install a tee and ball valve between the RO membrane and the DI filter so you can open it and flush the first few ounces of treated RO water to waste so it does not get to the resin. Again this is treated wate ryou are flushing not waste like the fluh valve you see advertised do.