So now we have been reefers for 3 months.

Lots of learning,tank ups and downs and evenings watching our little drop of ocean.
First, thanks to reefers everywhere for your advice and help.
I am realizing this hobby is not just about the tanks, but also about helping others become successful and sharing hard earned knowledge.
I hope to return the favor someday.

With a bit experience, I no longer worry about every little thing that goes on.
I pay attention, but don't freak out. I just go read about what I am observing and take appropriate action.
I now have 4 LFS that I visit regularly. All have different philosophies, but all strive to make the hobby enjoyable.

Lots of changes.
Sadly, the linkia starfish died, as you all predicted.
But my better half learned to not be quite so impulsive, and listen to me once in a while ( at least in the LFS! )
That big hermit crab died one nite in a QT ( timeout for wrecking the aquascape again ). Never did find out why.
However, his shell and the Calliactis polypus symbiotes are thriving!
The big Amplexidiscus fenestrafer had to go.
He ate 2 more fish, a debelius lobster, and attempted murder on our fire shrimp.
Traded him for a nice 6-line wrasse and a frogspawn polyp.
I discovered I can keep acans, and I am addicted! Loving ricordeas and rhodactis mushrooms too!

The tank parameters are settled in, some coraline is starting to grow, and the tank is out of infancy and into toddlerhood!

Current Livestock

Cabbage Leather Coral
Candy Cane Coral
Orange Sun Coral
Blue Sympodium
Neon Carpet Corals
Frogspawn
Green Star Polyps
Yellow Polyps
Ricordea and Rhodactis Mushrooms
Pulsing Xenias
Acan Lord
Acan Echinata
Pipe organ Coral
Zoas
Palys
Orange Tree Sponge

Debelius Reef Lobster
Fire Shrimp
Yellow Cucumber

Yellow Tail Damsel
Fiji Devil Damsel
Barberi / Tomato Clownfish
Small Yellow Tang (I know! But she is headed for the 110 that is under construction)



Some current pix
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