Thanks to a recent ID post I found out that what I thought was just a "Big Weird" bristle worm is in fact a Bobbit worm. So after a long weekend with a red lens the Good News is that I think I found the little SOB's cave.

Now here's the Bad News.
121250 - Bobbit on the Brain !?!

121318 - Bobbit on the Brain !?!

$*%#!
121407 - Bobbit on the Brain !?!

FML it's in my beautiful +6" Lobo and I have no idea how it get it out without hurting the coral.
Does anyone have any advice on how to get rid of the worm but keep the Lobo?