the male is eating just fine now. I haven't seen the female eat yet but she doesn't look thin. No harassing is going on that i can see. not marks or bite marks on her fins. Still hides a fare amount. Comes out every now and then, but if I come around she normally goes back to her hiding place. They have been in the tank for about two weeks now. I would like if she wasn't eating I would see some kind of sign...thin looking or something.